Thursday, May 27, 2010

Jump? Sure... How High?





Gosh its been a while since I blogged last... I've been busy training for the circus you see. Laugh as you might, I think I may have qualified as an acrobat since we last met... And who has taught me such a skill? Well I'm learning this art courtesy of our very own health service providers, the HSE and the Department of Education and Science have thrown in a few lessons along the way. They are equal opportunity trainers, but if I'm honest, I think they favour our group at times as seem to focus on training us at every opportunity...

I first started jumping through hoops before I even met "The Professionals" at the HSE and the DOES, but the hoops I thought were difficult to navigate and jump through were only training hoops. A straight run and with a little effort you jumped right through. Inconvenient but not unsurpassable. Since those days though, the HSE and DOES have introduced me to a whole new level of hoops and obstacles to navigate on my path to get my children the services they need and are actually entitled to! When you have filled in the gazillionth form, and bought your own photocopier as have that many forms/reports/letters to post out what seems like on a weekly basis, and think you have things under control, another hoop appears...



Unfortunately, like circus lions, I have discovered that if I want to get to where I need to go, I need to play the game and when the Ringmaster says "jump" its better to ask "how high" than resist. As a wise woman once said, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. She also told me that the "squeaky wheel is the one that gets oiled." When you are tired doing mental acrobatics, sometimes you need to step back, gather your energy along with your thoughts, and when you are ready, take another bash at it.

Whether is a refused DCA application and appeal, a request for reports, applying for Home Tuition, an SNA review or the fight for Speech and Language Therapy, or Occupational Therapy, you need to find the best way to approach the hoop to make it through. Sometimes you will need the support of others to help you along and give you a "boost up" when you feel you have no energy left to jump. Others who have navigated the course can be valuable allies as even thought the route may change from time to time, they will have information and advice how to handle your particular situation.

I think what I'm trying to say is "don't give up". The reason these hoops and obstacles are placed in our way is, in my opinion, to make it more difficult for parents in the hope that some will not pursue it further. A shameful way for the Government to save money at the expense of our children. What they don't bank on is us all coming together and in a show of strength helping each other navigate. When your child is diagnosed, you are not given information on what your entitlements are or what you can apply for. If you know any parent in this situation, please tell them, show them and guide them towards the information they need.




Right I'm off to sew some ostrich plumes to a leotard and post my CV to Duffys Circus...

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